Is it my fault? How blames destroy relationships and marriages
projecting blame to your spouse/partner does not help but fuels other ramifications in the future. Accepting our mistakes does not make us less human but improves our bond through forgiveness.
Nickson Mwandiki Kathenya 
The main aim of a relationship or marriage is happiness, peace, and personal development. However, people lose focus because of daily life struggles.
Satisfaction leads to happiness and growth, and it develops through appreciation and acceptance of mistakes. For instance, when you do something wrong, accept it and rectify it accordingly.
But, when you try to conceal your wrong behavior and change the narrative by blaming your partner, it destroys the emotional connection.
In most instances, partners plot revenge missions, which destroy peace in the marriage or relationship. As a result, fighting begins in the house, and the happy moments become history.
Ideally, projecting blame to your spouse/partner does not help but fuels other ramifications in the future. Accepting our mistakes does not make us less human but improves our bond through forgiveness.
The Joyous interactions require partners to take responsibility for their mistakes and improve suitably. Relationship studies reveal that accepting our mistakes and altering behavior evokes passionate feelings and strengthens a marriage or relationship.
